How to talk to (and about) your clients when their gender identities are complex

Gender identities are complex, and the words we use to talk about gender are constantly evolving. Whether or not you spend a lot of time in a gender-ambiguous world, as a business-owner, you need to know that it's important to be aware of the different ways people can gender identify, and that it's even more important to respect those identities. It's not always easy to discern someone's gender identity by sight, so here are three different ways I've gone about determining how my clients identify in a subtle, respectful way…

Why wedding photographers need to think like bloggers

I'm a wedding photographer. I'm also an editor and a blogger. Luckily for me, the two (three) combine together to make sweet internet magic for me on the regular: I looooove using my editor tricks when it comes to blogging weddings on my site!


The steps I took to become a work-from-home parent

Every so often someone will ask me exactly how I became a work-from-home parent, and the truth is what you expect: there wasn't one crystal clear moment in which everything lined up and OMG WOW! all of a sudden I was a parent who worked from home. I had to take serious steps to get there, and I take even more serious steps every day to stay here. SO HERE WE GO: I'm gonna break down my particular path for you.

When you work remotely, social media isn't just about wasting time

A few weeks ago I was loosely involved in a conversation about Internet usage of people who work from home. I say loosely because half the conversation was spoken in Spanish, which I most definitely do not speak, and also because the conversation only touched on this topic for a few minutes before it switched to something else. Basically, it was brought up by someone that a lot of people she knows who say they "work from home" seem to spend an awful lot of time on sites like Facebook and Twitter while "working."