The deep value of gathering with remote staff #Human Resources#managing#staff gatherings#working from home January 22 | Ariel Meadow Stallings offbeatariel Offbeat Home's Cat Rocketship and Offbeat Mama's Stephanie Kaloi under the Space Needle This is a post I've been meaning to write since October, when I finally gathered most of my remote staff into one place for Geek Girl Con and the Offbeat Empire Reception. I've worked with folks via IM and email for over a decade, and I've always been like FUCK YEAH REMOTE WORKING. It's so awesome that everyone can work from home, in their locations of choice, without having to deal with commuting or offices or childcare or anything else. Remote working is awesome and allows me to have an AMAZING staff that I could never assemble all in one city. But in all my loving of remote work, somehow I forgot that OH YEAH: it's really fucking awesome to actually be in one place at one time. I'd met many of my Empire staffers before last fall, but mostly just in one-on-one situations…. I met up with Stephanie and her family when they were visiting Portland last year. I swung by Rockethaus in Des Moines, Iowa on a trip to visit my mother-in-law in Iowa City. But never had these staffers met EACH OTHER, and never had we been able to hang out all together in one place for a weekend. The business value of having everyone together was pretty much immeasurable. Everyone had conversed via email and IM and even group video chat conferences… but it's a whole different thing to have everyone just hanging out together, sharing hotel rooms, and getting drunk and being inappopropro and gossiping and piling into cabs for rides home. There are challenges with getting remote staff all into one place — of course, there are the social nuances of interacting with a bunch of people who are mostly used to spending most days quietly behind their computers. My developer, Jennifer, is a quiet type — she's worked with me on projects from her home for the last 10 years, while she's been raising and homeschooling her four children. This is not a woman known for her drunken karaoke and loud-mouthery — unlike myself and Megan. I worried to myself that staffers wouldn't socially mesh and it would feel weird or uncomfortable, but you know what? It didn't. Not at all. Jennifer slayed everyone with her beneath-her-breath snarkery, and everyone adapted to each-other pretty easily. I mean, isn't that the core message of the Empire — that we can all be different kinds of freaks and get along? The clown car that will hold the Empire's entire editorial staff Remember back in January when I said that I was going to try my darndest to get remote staff together every year? Well, I'm doing... [more] There's also the weirdness of A) staff who couldn't make it feeling left out and B) staff turnover after the fact. The ever-fretting social engineer in me has just had to put on her big girl panties and recognize that not everyone who works with me will be able to make it to get-togethers, and that staff will come and go and that's ok. People who should be there won't make it, and I won't always have ongoing work for some folks who were able to make it. It's ok! This is not 6th grade. We can all deal with it. My biggest mistake in October, however, was packing too much into the weekend. Remote staff get-together, hosting a 200-person party, AND attending a con?! TOO MUCH. Really, just getting everyone into one pace at one time would have been enough social stimulation for a group of nerds used to working from home in greasy ponytails and pajamas. This in mind, plans are underway for an Empire Staff Retreat in April. No big party, no convention. Just a little staff retreat out at Sacred Groves. Sort of like a weekend-long slumber party, but with open wifi and lots of talk of content management systems and monetization strategies. My goal is to have some sort of staff meet-up every year. It's really REALLY worth it. Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Ariel Meadow Stallings Author of Offbeat Bride: Creative Alternatives for Independent Brides, Ariel acts as the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire websites. She lives, loves, and dorks out hard in Seattle, WA. @offbeatariel @offbeatbride PREVIOUS Migration currently underway: lessons being learned NEXT How to measure the days when you work from home Toggle comments [ 12 ] Fuck yeah!!!!!! LOVE this topic… Espesh since I'm flying out my long term assistant from USA to Australia for a 2 week long planning/dreaming retreat. We haven't met beyond Skype video chats, so I am flipping over the moon excited! I just know its Gunna be reaaaaaaally super useful!!!! 0 agree Reply Sort-of-related-but-sort-of-not question: How would one go about getting a job with OBE? Do you handpick people, or are there ever classified adds? 0 agree Reply I always do a blog post when I've got contract gigs open, although what I don't think many people understand is that working with me is NOT A) a full-time job or B) well-paying. With a couple exceptions, all my staff are part-time, and paid either on commission or, like, a couple hundred bucks a month. In other words: no one should be holding their breath to work for the Offbeat Empire. 0 agree Reply That actually encourages me, to be honest. I have a full-time job that I love but freelance part time. To be clear, I'm not ASKING for a job with OBT, just fantisizing about how cool it would be to write for you guys and curious as to the process. 0 agree Reply Oh, we're ALWAYS taking submissions: http://offbeatbride.com/submissions http://offbeathome.com/submissions http://offbeatmama.com/submissions 0 agree Reply OBE sponsor retreat?!?! wait- I live in Scotland. Probably couldn't come… sadface. 0 agree Reply Offbeat Empire sponsor retreat IN Scotland? 0 agree Reply That's exactly it! Get on that, McGlynn. 0 agree Reply You know, it's funny/weird… at our office, we're 8 people under one roof, plus 2 web guys who work from home. I'm not sure we've ever all been in the same room AND WE ALL LIVE HERE. 0 agree Reply I've been working from home for almost ten years now (gulp — where did the time go??). I get together with the rest of my group on average once per month and that mix reaaaally works for me. I get the face-to-face interaction I need AND the quiet time to development software. In fact I'm amazed you can make it 6 whole months before you see each other! But then again I don't have 6 different schedules to coordinate… 0 agree Reply YEA!!!!!!!!!!!! retreats.are.the.best. in any form….i wish to retreat right now…. LOL have a great one. and LOVE me some OBE(verything) 0 agree Reply I so hear this. Currently working with a team in 3 different Canadian cities, one of those in the remote frozen north, for a project team based in a totally different time zone halfway around the world. Email, phone, video conference….it works for getting by day to day, but nothing beats meeting up in person semi-regularly! 0 agree Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. 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