Questions: working from home & how to become a successful blogger #Publishing#blogging#coworking#reader questions March 16 | Ariel Meadow Stallings offbeatariel By: zeevveez – CC BY 2.0 Oh yay, it's questions from readers! What's been the hardest thing about launching (and sustaining and being successful at) a freelance career that has you working primarily from home? Do you find yourself being lonely? -Ariel Hansen First, I should note that I don't really consider myself a freelancer at this point. I'm a self-employed small business owner, but I'm not hunting around for clients each month like I used to when I was a freelancer. But yes: isolation IS the hardest part of the work I do, and finding a place to work outside the home has been KEY for this gig being sustainable for me. At least one day a week, I work at a coworking space called Office Nomads with a bunch of other freelancers/self-employed folks. About the "You might also like" posts you'll see on Offbeat Empire sites The "related posts" underneath each blog post are served up by a service called Outbrain. The thumbnails include four Offbeat Empire posts and one related-ish... [more] Having a staff of people working on the Empire also keeps me from getting lonely. Realistically, I'm working with people in LA, Iowa, Virginia, and Alabama every day. They're not in the room with me, but there's a LOT of chatting and emailing. How do you become a successful blogger? I know OBB was a platform from which you could promote the book, but in the blogging realm, how do you really put yourself out there and become known? -Christen Step 1: figure out how you define "success." You have to know what you're aiming for if you want to be successful. Are you looking for a book deal? Are you trying to establish yourself as an authority so that you can get hired by an awesome company in your chosen field? Are you trying attract advertisers so that your blog becomes a source of income? How you succeed in blogging totally depends on your goals. My goals have shifted over the years. When I first started blogging in 2000, there was no concept of doing it full time. I was 25, was bailing on my magazine job, and wanted to meet writers online. I did a lot of the kinds of confessional writing that's really good for making friends, admitting embarrassing things in a public outlet so that others would be like OMG ME TOOO and we could bond over it. After a few years, my professional goals shifted to "get a book deal," so my personal blog refocused on highlighting the very best of my writing and getting it seen by as many people as possible. I still wasn't looking for advertisers or sponsorship so I wasn't super focused on a huge readership — I was looking to build potential publishers' confidence in the strength of my voice and ideas. My goals for success were all around the quality of my writing, with a lot of thoughtful, long-format narrative nonfiction and essays. Once I got the book deal, I launched this here website to help me sell the book. All my good writing was supposedly in the book, so the goal of the blog was leading people to purchase it. I wrote about reading events, did lots of posts that ended "…I talk about this in the book," and included tons of links Amazon. Success was defined by book sales and numbers of people at my reading events. I didn't want to give away too much writing on the blog, because my success was measured in how many people bought the book. Midway through June of 2007, I realized it wasn't working. Despite lots of people reading the blog, very few people were buying the book. At that point, I shifted my goals to advertising and sponsorship. My focus shifted at that point from selling books, to selling eyeballs to advertisers. Content was focused on encouraging readers to spend more time on the blog, and read more posts. (Because when selling advertising, monthly pageviews are key.) I upped the number of posts I was producing, and stopped making every post about the book. Since I was producing more, my time to actually WRITE diminished, which is when I started doing more bride profiles and wedding porn and bringing in editors to help me crank it all out. As you can see, as my goals/measures of success shifted, my blogging changed. Circa-2000 Ariel would consider me terribly boring, because my websites are not about ME any more. Circa-2005 author-era Ariel would be amazed at how little WRITING I actually do — I'm much more focused on business development and editing than I am on writing. Circa-2007 Ariel would be weirded out by the fact that Offbeat Bride has lost its "BOOK" tab — wasn't that the whole focus of the site? But circa-2010 Ariel is stoked: I love that the Offbeat Empire is now about working with a team of awesome people to produce a network of websites for smarties to read. This is all to say: how you succeed as a blogger totally depends on what kind of success you want. Figure out what you want first. Step 2: Figure out how to get it. Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Ariel Meadow Stallings Author of Offbeat Bride: Creative Alternatives for Independent Brides, Ariel acts as the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire websites. She lives, loves, and dorks out hard in Seattle, WA. @offbeatariel @offbeatbride PREVIOUS How to get an avatar to appear with your Offbeat Empire comments NEXT More questions: mistakes, merch, and more Toggle comments [ 17 ] I bought the book! Make that 1.0001%. I don't know the readership so blatantly made up that number. I did actually find it pretty useful in ways the blog isn't, but will be handing it off when the wedding's over to the next friend getting married, thus preventing another sale. Sorry. 0 agree Reply Thank you, Ariel. Also? I bought the book. And I too will be handing it off, but in all fairness I *accidentally* purchased two copies and gave one to an engaged friend. So, I guess that cancels itself out. I love these reader question posts. I find them very insightful … just like the rest of the site and the Tribe. 0 agree Reply I bought the digital copy of the book for my kindle! 0 agree Reply I promise you, I will buy the book the moment I get engaged and don't feel weird owning a book about how to plan a wedding. Here's my question- how do I get a job working for you? Copyediting a site like yours where I actually enjoy everything I put up on it (I currently edit and run a local news website) sounds like a DREAM. 0 agree Reply I usually post when I have job openings available, although sometimes folks fall into my lap … which is how I found our current copyeditor. That said, you might THINK you want to work for the Empire, but any of my staff will tell you that I'm sort of a hard-driving task master. Ask anyone who's gotten one of my "let's talk about your priorities" emails… 0 agree Reply Our wounds from her vicious whippings hardly have time to heal before she's letting loose on us again. Seriously though, I sometimes feel bad for our current (and fabulous) copy editor. It's a LOT of work for a very part time gig time, even if it's totally awesome content! 0 agree Reply I bought 2 copies, one first edition and one second edition. Do I get props? 0 agree Reply MEGA props! 0 agree Reply There's no need to wait until you're planning a wedding to buy the book. It's not about how to plan a wedding, it's a memoir of hilarious laugh out loud moments that just happens to be set in wedding land. Well worth reading! 0 agree Reply I like step 2. 0 agree Reply Step 3: Profit! Not that I'm demeaning Ariels process at all, it's obviously worked, but pretty much any short step process makes me think of that South Park episode. The process here clearly works, especially the advertising part. I have a personal rule that whilst I don't block adverts I almost never click on them, as much out of resentment as anything. But I've found myself clicking adverts on here more than a few times, even when I'm just curious about what exactly the company sells. (It helps a lot that the adverts stay in their designated space down the side. They don't flash, don't jump out and take over the screen and I'm not afraid to move my mouse over the site so I'm feeling a lot less resentful if/when I do look at them.) One day when I have money it might even lead to a sale! (Although at this point that's more likely to be through Offbeat Home, at this rate my wedding will have come and gone before I have money even for the wedding.) Ok this was supposed to be a short pop culture reference, not an essay on my opinions about advertising, but what the hell. 0 agree Reply The South Park reference was very much intentional. 0 agree Reply I bought the book too! I <3 it. 0 agree Reply I'm an Offbeat Mama and Home junky, but and trying to put off doing work right now. I was thinking that I wished that I had known about Offbeat Bride when I got married (If only to find out that my need for vegan flats was only a click away). But I guess it didn't exist in 2005. 0 agree Reply I was busy writing the book in 2005. Back then, your only hope was IndieBride. Offbeat Bride launched Jan 1, 2007. 0 agree Reply what about donations to the younger, less lucrative offbeatmama and offbeathome? 0 agree Reply i bought the book, found the site, got unengaged and gave the book away. I've been here since early 2007 and haven't been engaged since Oct '07. I'd totes buy an offbeat coffee-table book, so would wedding planners for their offices, and people who were featured to show their kids, and all the loyal fans. Idk if you'd make anything off of it, but it would be neat to have a "best of" compendium. maybe a limited ed. 5-year anniversary edition next year! (omg almost 5 years!) 0 agree Reply Leave a Reply Cancel reply No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. 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